Louise’s Experience
Image courtesy of StockPhotography.co.za
Before I joined Wendy’s course I read every parenting book I could, and talked to every mother about what they thought I should do, for answers to my dilemmas with my very active son. I labelled him as difficult and hyper demanding. I defined my self as inadequate.
From the first session with Wendy I discovered another easier way to parent. Using skills which Wendy taught me I used my inner wisdom, my intuition I tuned into my child’s heart to just simply KNOW what was going on in all the conflicts and issues with him and myself.
I also looked at what steps to take to bring me closer to what I wanted. Through the course I learned what my made up beliefs were (difficult son, not good mother). I discovered what I really wanted - a fun easy light and loving connection with him. I learnt how to change my focus from the frustration, anguish and the projections I was placing onto him to what I wanted.
From then everything began to change. I became the mother I wanted to be, I mothered from my heart and enjoyed a deep, loving and joyous relationship with my little boy. From that time, Adam was 6 months old, I saw and appreciated him for his true self for the first time. I saw my true amazing wise self and how connected I am to him. I encouraged my son to live form his true nature and I did too.
Image courtesy of Tushita.
My daily mantra has become to enjoy my child and be true to myself. If there is a problem of not sleeping or not eating, I know how to tune into it. The results are magical. I feel so lucky to have met Wendy and been guided by her to see myself, a beautiful, loving and wise mother and woman and create the loving family I have. There have been so many times when I would have worried and doubted myself along the way this past Two and half years.
My wish is to share these tools with all my mothering friends - that we have this inner wisdom and knowledge to know anything and guide us for our children, our families and ourselves and we can access this so easily. I highly recommend Wendy’s work to any parent.
Louise
