Blossoming Families: Creating a Child

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Would you love to create your hearts desire now?

Would you love to be guided by your inner wisdom to create what you love?

Do you want to experience more love and connection with your partner, where you both feel supported and are working to create your dreams together?

Would you love to regain joy, fun, lightness and love in your life and relationship, not just having sex and connection to make a baby?

Would you love to know what is really stopping you from conceiving?

Would you love peace of mind and a have a rock to hold onto, which is knowing and living from your true self, relying on your inner wisdom to guide you to create your dreams?

Both men and woman can experience the pain of not being able to create a child. This time can be filled with emotional turmoil, it can tear our families and us apart. Then we can be bombarded with so much information telling us what to do, which can change our life from ease to regimented hell. How can we simply create our dreams and navigate our way thru this “jungle”?

Our inner wisdom can. It is always with us, ready and willing to provide authentic insight into what is truly going on and to guide us to our hearts desires. It unravels the emotions and sets us on a course of truth, love and creation. When our pure heart’s intention is focused on what we want, we create it. What also is very powerful is living from our authentic self. When we know who we are and the strategies and beliefs that hold us back from creating our dreams, then we can place the power in our authentic self and create the lives we want. And then we are very well equipped to walk the journey of being parent.

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If it's true for you and your partner to create a family, they you will create one. How can we move towards creating our next child with more ease and know we can create what we want?

At Blossoming Families we run a course called “Creating a Child” where you can learn about how to:

Be connected to and rely on your inner wisdom to guide you to creating your family.
Create a “rock” to hold onto during this journey, which is you, when you live from your true self. You will come to know who you really are and what stops you from creating the family you want.
Know clearly what has stopped you from conceiving in the past.
To focus on and create the family you'd love.
Reveal your other motivations (e.g. wanting to feel loved, fix the relationship or please someone else) and how they get in the way of what you really want.

By learning to use your inner wisdom (intuition), you will also have:

Insight and wisdom into your conception journey, you will know the path to follow to create what you would love, by relying on your intuition and not only to have a baby but to guide you upon your life’s journey.
An appreciation of your own, your partner's and your child's unique gifts and abilities.
The ability to continue to connect with your partner and your child during your pregnancy and beyond.
A strong appreciation of your womanly body, the transition from woman to mother and the ability to be supported through this change.

Contact us now for more information on how to create the family you would love.

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Creating a Child and the Gardenia

The gardenia is an exquisite bloom that only blossoms when it is warm, when it has received nourishment and has been watered. Perfume potions cannot replicate the authenticity and beauty of the perfume from a gardenia; it is truly magnificent and always takes me to the most exotic places when I draw in its perfume. So too is conception. We conceive when we are in our feminine heart, when we are open to receive our beautiful children then we smell the sweetness or the perfume on our journey to becoming a mother.

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I have had a number of gardenias over the years. I have lost a few and have learnt from this experience. The knowledge that I have gained I feel can be applied to our journey becoming a parent.

While we wait for those blooms to appear there is great anticipation. We can even see the gardenia blooms in our mind. We can even imagine the perfume, while we wait for the blooms to arrive.

When we want to create a child we can be focused on many things other than imagining those blooms and their perfume. On the conception journey we are told many things about what we should do, it can become overwhelming. You read books, you are offered advice, you go to this therapist, or a doctor and you are given a cocktail of “what to do”. A lot of this does not work. Why? Because we are not imagining the blossom and smelling the perfume, imaging holding our beautiful child and the life we want to share together as a family.

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I think there is something to say about the authenticity of the perfume of the gardenia. When we are authentic in our motivation to create a child then we will create one. What I am saying is, we can have many reasons for wanting a child. If our main reason is for the delight and joy of holding our own baby in our arms, watching them grow, sharing our lives with them and our partner, then this is an authentic motivation. When our focus and vision is pure or authentic, our focus is just on the end result rather than the other stuff, then the energy will naturally move to create that end result along a path of least resistance. Like when water running down a hill it finds the path of least resistance and runs along that course. However, if we are focused on other reasons or motivations then we create difficulty for ourselves on this journey because the energy wants to go somewhere else, not along the path to create a baby.

The common gardenia is either pure white or cream. What this says to me is, to create our hearts desire we need to be purely focused on creating a child, rather than all the other stuff. For a long time on my journey I was focused on looking good, having a great story of achievement to share with others, wanting my child to have a sibling, my partner to experience a relationship with a boy child. When my focus was on having a child and the life I was going to enjoy with them, I fell pregnant straight away. When our reasons for having a child are not pure in their motivation, it is less likely to happen. Other motivations could be to make your partner happy, to be loved more and feel approval, to feel like a real woman or man, to save a relationship, to get the in laws and your parents off your back, you don’t know what else to do in life. When these motivations seem to be the reasons for having a child I think you will be disappointed, as you may never conceive.

To grow a great gardenia bush, which has many blooms, I have found that you have to prune the bush regularly. You remove the growing tips of the new leaves, so the branch bushes out making two branches which in turn brings forth more blooms and a bushier and fuller plant.

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There can be many layers, like an onion that need to peel away before we burst forth that bloom, the child we want. It can be like the pruning, while this is happening you will benefit and blossom more into who you are and will be enriched by your journey, rather than hating it and feeling despondent. For me I have hated this journey many times and have become depressed at times but I would not change who I have become. I am soo grateful for the journey I have travelled and I am such a rich, beautiful, wise, feminine woman because of this experience.

Your intuition is such a great resource on this journey. I don’t think I would have stayed sane if it wasn’t for using my intuition. It can guide you to create more ease in your life while you wait to create your child.

Conceiving can be like a maze, when you don’t use your intuition to guide you. You think you have to do this, you think you have to do that and then there is more to do after that. How can you know what is true to do? How do you navigate thru this maze of information so you create the blossoming bloom, your child?

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Your inner wisdom can become your guide. Your inner wisdom or what I call intuition is with us all the time and can be relied upon 100%. Intuition knows the truth about everything. Waiting to conceive (I must say that I hate the term Trying To Conceive - TTC) can be an emotional roller coaster. When we rely on our intuition to navigate us thru this journey we experience less turmoil in our lives. It becomes a choice, in relation to whether we get onboard that roller coaster of emotions, or not. We become the creator in our lives rather than the “victim” of our situation.

In the course you will discover who you really are, your true self, what your special gifts and abilities are and what is true for you in your life. You also come to know what you do to sabotage yourself and what strategies you activate when you are not living from your true self, therefore not receiving what you want. Very powerful stuff when you put it into action in relation to creating a child. You can take back your power and set yourself on a path to create what you love.

Sometime it takes a while to create your child. There could be a lot unravelling or discarding many layers like an onion. Some woman and men experience a long journey to create their children others don’t. One of the reasons for this can be about being a woman or a man. There are many reasons why we shut ourselves down to who we are and our sexuality. This has been an issue for me. When I am not living from my true self I shut down to the beautiful woman I am and I certainly don’t want children, as I believe I will be a slave and I am not open to receiving a child.

Creatingachild_flower5_gardenia We can shut ourselves down to our beauty and who we are in truth whether we are a woman or a man. For a woman there can be issues about opening ourselves up about being a woman and being in our feminine bodies. When we want to conceive we need to open up to receive the male sperm in our bodies to create life. That is one state of opening up, it is a very feminine state where we can experience difficulty, being vulnerable and letting go.

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However, we do need to be in a state of being ready to receive the sperm on a physical level as well as a spiritual level. Personally I hate being in a vulnerable state, if I am not coming from my true self and I feel I have no control and I hate that. So rather than be in a state of opening up, being in my feminine and vulnerable I go into control and shut down my femininity and of course my ability to conceive and my partner being in his masculine. There must be both the feminine and the masculine aspects to create life. Conception is enhanced when woman are in their feminine and our men are in their masculine. It has nothing to do with violation just an energetic requirement for conception.

Sometimes being a woman in our feminine and a man in his masculine is not easy for us and as a result we can create fertility issues, as a means to control the situation. I can assure you that when you come to know your whole true self and live from your authentic self, then you are in a wonderful place, to not only create your dreams but to live from tremendous love and joy. Couple this with your intuition and you will be able to peel those layers away so you can move onto receiving your child.

I encourage you to participate in our course, Creating a Child so you can receive your deepest hearts desire soon.

Much love

Wendy

Gorgeous one. Thank you so much for coming into my life and enriching it so deeply. I am so truly grateful to my heart for revealing it’s desire to have a child and the courage to just jump in and be ever so richly and gorgeously rewarded in all the parts of my life, as a woman, mother and teacher. You are so beautiful my gorgeous one.