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Would you love to enjoy freedom and lightness in your life again and be able to create what you love?
Would you love peace in you life again?
Would you love to know why?
It seems more families are experiencing miscarriage, death of a child, the pain of adoption and abortion these days. These experiences can freeze us and our families. Families can experience deep depression and some family members feel they can never open themselves up to life, love and joy again. There are different degrees of pain experienced by family members but it does impact everyone.
In the course we create a very loving, nurturing and confidential environment, where you can move at your own pace, being guided by your inner wisdom to gain understanding and insight into why it happened. And then you are able to move towards peace. In your own time and empowered with what the course teaches (knowing and living from your true self, being connected and utilising your inner wisdom and using your creative power) you will gain the courage to look at what your heart wants now and create the life you want. It is not about “getting over it”. The course leads you to where you are able to open up to life again and let go, in your own time. You will be able to breathe and take in new life.
I have felt great pain as I was about to write this section, I can feel some of the pain of what you are feeling. I have never experienced a miscarriage, death of a child, adoption or abortion so I cannot speak from experience however, I am sure I can serve you with my intuition and the skills I possess.
Gisele Gambi, who will be co-facilitating this course, has personal experience of miscarriage, death of a child and adoption. She will share from her experience and her intuition, which will guide you to where your heart would love to take you. We will both serve your hearts and assist you in jour journey whatever your situation.
It has not been an easy journey for you but now it may be time to move forward with lightness, ease and grace. How do you come to terms with what has happened, so you can open yourself to life, love and joy again?
I think what holds you in your grief and inability to let go, trust and move ahead again is two-fold:
At Blossoming Families we run a course called Life After Losing a Child.
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By learning to use your inner wisdom or intuition, you will also have:
Contact us now for more information on how to move through your pain and loss and create the family you'd love.
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The flower that relates to this section is Lilly Longiflorum or November Lilly or Xmas Lilly. It is a big beautiful white Lilly.
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I am sure you are all at varying degrees in your pain. To me, the lily says that you could be stuck at any point in your grief. You could be stuck in the bulb, experiencing deep grief, not engaging in life and your relationships. You could be situated somewhere along the stem of the plant struggling to bring forth a flower but life to you is a struggle because of the pain you are feeling. Or you could be at the flower stage. Here you could be functioning in the world yet you are not experiencing life to the full because of the pain. Or you’re at the end of that long trumpet flower you go out into the world but you feel numb, you don’t open up to life and relationships, you may feel like a walking zombie.
Naturally each bulb wants to grow into a flower that is what they do. You have a path to tread which is your natural course. You really want to reach your full potential but at the moment you feel you cannot. That bud and stem naturally want to bring forth that beautiful strong flower. The flower wants to dance in the wind, be pollinated, enjoy its life as a flower and then bring forth other flowers when it drops its seeds. The bulb, stem and flower want to experience life to the full and express its potential, like you.
I know that you really want to open yourself up to life again but you find you are stuck. How do I let go of my pain, trust life and myself again and be able to create my dreams again?
This course will allow you to do all this. You will come to know and meet your real self and appreciate where you have been and where you are heading. Being connected to your intuition you will able to look at why this situation has occurred in your life and gain wisdom about the experience. You will be able to turn pain into gain. I know that sounds strange but I believe you don’t go through these experiences without a reason. My experience has shown to me, that when these things happen, you become the expert about these situations. You have something to offer others when they experience similar situations. You may not see this at the moment and when you do, the course will support you. It identifies your special gifts, talents and your purpose in life. I am sure a lot of you will become teachers or the like. Who else is better equipped to teach about grief than the ones who have experienced it.
I want to say that this course is not about “forget it” and definitely not about “get over it”.
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Course: Life After Losing a Child
Course Information: Read Luxuriating.
Dates: To be advised.
Venue: To be advised.
In May 2005, on my birthday, I conceived a child. Three months later I gave birth to the child in my bathroom, it was, needless to say, a miscarriage. This was a very lonely period in my life, I knew so few people who had had a similar experience. In a strange way I knew from the start that this was a doomed pregnancy, I had dreams about giving birth to cracked Easter eggs, among others. I believe that my body knew something that I wasn't in touch with. From somewhere deep inside me, my intuition was sending me a message that I wouldn't heed. It was at that time that Wendy contacted me from cyber space to offer her friendship and a shoulder to cry on.
A short three months later I discovered a new pregnancy was blooming within my womb. I was overjoyed, and terrified at the same time. I desperately wanted to tune into my deeper knowledge of what was happening in my body but I felt my judgement was too clouded with hope to be clear. I felt that this baby would be coming earth side, but with my past experiences (I had had another miscarriage also) I didn't want to be too hopeful. Wendy and I sat down together and talked about it, she offered to help me get in touch with my intuition and I agreed whole heartedly!
With Wendy’s' help I worked through my fear of the past so that I was able to see this new pregnancy for what it was. We created a visualisation for me to focus on. I could see myself sitting naked on a green pasture, with a deep, green forest behind me. My 7-year-old daughter and my partner were beside me and I was holding a newborn baby and crying with joy. There was an amazing aura around us, it was tranquil and safe. All this was in my psyche waiting for me to unleash it, I just needed a bit of help! Wendy showed me a positive way to deal with the fears, by acknowledging them but not letting them take control of my future.
I am now nearly 6 months pregnant, it is unlikely that I will sit naked in a pasture, but I will hold my precious baby in my arms soon! I still view my visualisation with joy and elation when I relax in the bathtub! Soon I will be harnessing all my inner knowledge to birth my child in a loving place, and I know that I can trust my body to do what is needed. Every woman has intuition, and the wisest of women, are able to harness it, and let it steer their hearts towards their destiny.
Thanks for showing me the way Wendy!
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Wendy used her intuition and guided me through my issues around my two miscarriages. She helped me to become aware of my own beliefs and assumptions so that I could become free of their hold on me and see and create what I really wanted, a healthy pregnancy.
I realised, using Wendy's tools and instinctive gift of tuning into what's really going on, what my thoughts and feelings were about being pregnant. I had many fears such as not being able to get pregnant, not being capable of managing another child, not a good enough mother, of others thinking it was a bad time, of my relationship not being able to handle another child, of not deserving another child as I am not that important. Once I recognised my most inner limiting beliefs I could move on to focus on what my heart and spirit really wanted, a healthy pregnancy, and create it.
I realised what I wanted and had the courage to ask for it and accept it using tools that Wendy taught me. I would not have allowed my self the joy of being pregnant again if I had not delved into my almost subconscious thoughts.
Wendy has an amazing gift, which helps woman to tune into their hearts and see what it is they really want. She helps others to see what is really going on and reminds us of the inner knowledge we all have, and the creative woman we all are.
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