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Would you love to create a wonderful, close-knit family where you enjoy loving, heart felt and delightful relationships?
Would you like to know what is “true and right” in any situation and create what you love? Would you love to experience more fun, joy and lightness in all aspects of your life?
Would you love to be deeply connected to each family member and are able to serve them with your inner wisdom to guide them and know what to do?
Would you love to face conflict with love and truth and be able to create true change that serves yourself and others?
Every parent experiences daily challenges and sometimes it is not an easy role to sustain. How do we create loving and heart felt relationships within our families? How do we experience a balance between having time, energy and passion for ourselves, our family and our partner? How do we change situations where we feel out of control or powerless to have what we want, to experiencing the ease and joy of life? When we come home to our authentic self then we can really create what we love. We can change difficult situations easily and simply. We can call on our inner wisdom to guide us and we can be informed to know everything about anything. How easy would that make your family life?
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Every parent knows what is true and right for themselves and their family.
In writing this course I have come back to realise how important a family is and appreciate its role in society and for our children. Children need a loving base where they can be supported and feel love. Where they use the family as a stage to express themselves and trial the expressions and the characters they are becoming. To generally play and act out what they are learning and assimilating. It is a practise ground. When each family member is loved for who they are, are supported and able to express their real self then a family can blossom.
How can we create loving beautiful families where each family member reaches their full potential?
Every parent knows how to create the family life they want, and that comes from their inner wisdom.
The simple way to parent effectively is to access your inner wisdom. If your child won’t listen to you, or their behaviour is challenging, you can use your intuition to find out: What’s going on for my child? How can I settle the conflict and create the end-result that we'd all love?
Parenting can be a challenging job and it can be overwhelming… or it can be thoroughly enjoyable. Sometimes it feels like you're split in half. It’s easy to feel like a servant to the family to consumed doing the mundane things and sacrifice what you love.
At Blossoming Families we run a course called “Loving Families” where you can learn about how to:
By learning to use your inner wisdom (intuition), you will also have:
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Contact us now for more information on how to create the family you would love, and support yourself, your partner and your children from truth and love.
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There are so many different types of roses climbing, shrub, bushes, standards, hybrid teas etc and their colour spans in all shades of reds, pinks, purples, oranges, corals, peaches and whites. They are the most popular garden flower, highly valued for their fragrance and form. So too are our families, our children and ourselves. We are all unique, wonderful and have our own special attributes, style and perfume.
The rose is usually associated with love. That really encapsulates what a family is all about doesn’t? We give roses to our loved ones and what is the most common flower on Valentine’s Day, the rose. The perfume is glorious, the buds are just beautiful and then they open up into these magnificent blooms. So too are we, our families and our children.
But how do we create this beautiful family? So every person making up the family reaches their potential, expresses who they are and the family reaches its full potential?
We are all like rose blooms. When our children are born they are like a tight growing bud that has just blossomed forth from our body. Each rose is different and unique in their own beauty. Each rose bud opens at their own pace revealing their special beauty and fragrance. Like our children, there are no 2 exactly alike. The glorious bud unfolds, who knows what is inside and what is it become? Yet we can. Each child has special gifts and abilities, a nature and a purpose. What is written on each petal, what experiences will they have? How do we know how to hold each of those petals so they develop into a beautiful flower?
We are all born with a true nature that is really special and unique to only us. As we grow we change, we tend to move away from living from our true nature. How can we restore ourselves back to that nature and parent from our true self and allow our children to do the same? In the course we bring you back to know and live from your true nature and teach you the skills to connect with your children at a very deep level by using your intuition.
In the course you learn how to connect with and utilise you inner wisdom or intuition. When you are able to access this wonderful gift, which we all have, then you can know everything about anything. This is such a great tool for us as parents. When you don’t know what is happening in a certain situation for yourself or others you can use your intuition to know. For example if your child is sick, you can ask your intuition what is wrong and what is the best way to bring about health again. You can also know your whole child and your self. You can discover what are your gifts and abilities, what is our true nature and what do we really want to do in our lives. When there is conflict you can access your intuition to know what is really going on and how to create the end results everyone really wants. Such a great gift. Takes all the guesswork, research and agonising out of parenting. You don’t have to worry again because you have all the tools to know.
We all want to experience a loving connected family, like a beautiful rose bush. How can we create this for ourselves and our families? Families like this are only truly realised when each member is living from their true nature, is equipped with the ability to use their intuition and is really expressing their nature. I know it sounds all-mystical but it is true. When we can really be ourselves, know ourselves and each family member then we can really love and appreciate them and ourselves. By knowing what we really would love to do in our lives, each and everyday and create that, then we are all living on a very high vibration and it is easy to love, share our love and be loved.
Each rose blossom stands on their own. They are not joined, only to the branch that supports the plant. So too are we. Finding a balance and being able to do what we want can be challenging. We can experience imbalance easily. Having no time for our own interests, being consumed with family duties and attending to our children can be draining. Sometimes our relationships with our partners are sorely attended to. Sometimes we can feel we are being pulled in many directions with little time for ourselves. How do we create balance and fully enjoy our lives and our family life? During the course you will identify what you really love in life, how to create balance and enjoy every facet of your lives.
Creating a balance where we are fulfilled can be tricky as a parent. Like a rose we can become lopsided by putting all our focus and energies into our children, or it could be our career or anything else. To create balance, as a mother I think is really important, as we give a lot, it is a part of why we are woman, we are naturally nurturers. When we don’t know who we are and we are driven by what we think and believe we have to be and do it can be damaging and we can become tired, drained and sometimes ill. When we are connected to our true self, have our intuition and know what we really want in life then we truly can create balance. We then know what we love outside of being a mother and we are able to do that and experience great joy in our lives. We are then much happier and feel greater fulfilment and are re-charged ready to provide more quality in our family lives. We know what serves our family members and we know all the time what is going on for ourself and for our family. We have the tools to create change and how to truly connect and develop loving relationships within our lives and families.
So too for the main wage earner. When we have to maintain a job and be a parent this too can be challenging. Sometimes an imbalance is experienced here. It can be difficult to manage time, focus, and enjoyment in all our roles. We can experience our time taken up with our jobs and find little time to enjoy our children and partners. It seems difficult to have it all. There always seems to be that something or someone looses out. By using our inner wisdom will we know how to create a balance. By knowing our true self, the strategies we can go into that sabotage ourselves from enjoying life and creating what we want and then we are able to know how to enjoy that balance in all our facets of life.
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Each rose bush is glorious a sight to behold. Each family, like that bush is unique and made up of beautiful individual roses. Sometimes being a parent and creating a loving wonderful family is not always a bed of roses. There are thorns each rose bush has thorns some are big others are practically non-existent. But shall we focus on the thorns or the beauty of the rose bush? I know you want to focus on and nurture a beautiful family, observe your blooms, your children, your partner and yourself blossom and reach your full potential together, enjoying loving, connected relationships, having fun and experience the great delight of your family.
A family is like a rose bush. To create a strong, healthy bush that produces masses of beautiful flowers all the right ingredients are necessary. The right type of rose for the garden. Then select the right spot for that rose. The soil must be the right ph with lots of organic matter and drainage. The plant must be healthy. The roots have to be spread out over the mound, soil and manures added and all watered down. It has to be fed, watered and pruned regularly, So too with families. The family is made up of building blocks. Each building block within the family together creates a structure. If the structure is not strong then the building will collapse. A strong vision of what the building is to look like has to be held. With a strong structure from comes the fruition of dreams. A wonderful family is created when the parents, or just one parent can come home to our true self. When we are able to know and live from who we are, connected to our intuition and are to use our creative power to create what we love then we can create the families we want. These are the “the right ingredients”. This is when we can create the family and life our heart desires.
So come and join us for one of our courses and we will take you to your dreams.
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Come and join us for one of our courses and we will take you to your dreams.
Course: Loving Families
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Course information: Read Luxuriating.
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Louise’s Experience
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Before I joined Wendy’s course I read every parenting book I could, and talked to every mother about what they thought I should do, for answers to my dilemmas with my very active son. I labelled him as difficult and hyper demanding. I defined my self as inadequate.
From the first session with Wendy I discovered another easier way to parent. Using skills which Wendy taught me I used my inner wisdom, my intuition I tuned into my child’s heart to just simply KNOW what was going on in all the conflicts and issues with him and myself.
I also looked at what steps to take to bring me closer to what I wanted. Through the course I learned what my made up beliefs were (difficult son, not good mother). I discovered what I really wanted - a fun easy light and loving connection with him. I learnt how to change my focus from the frustration, anguish and the projections I was placing onto him to what I wanted.
From then everything began to change. I became the mother I wanted to be, I mothered from my heart and enjoyed a deep, loving and joyous relationship with my little boy. From that time, Adam was 6 months old, I saw and appreciated him for his true self for the first time. I saw my true amazing wise self and how connected I am to him. I encouraged my son to live form his true nature and I did too.
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My daily mantra has become to enjoy my child and be true to myself. If there is a problem of not sleeping or not eating, I know how to tune into it. The results are magical. I feel so lucky to have met Wendy and been guided by her to see myself, a beautiful, loving and wise mother and woman and create the loving family I have. There have been so many times when I would have worried and doubted myself along the way this past Two and half years.
My wish is to share these tools with all my mothering friends - that we have this inner wisdom and knowledge to know anything and guide us for our children, our families and ourselves and we can access this so easily. I highly recommend Wendy’s work to any parent.
Louise
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